Most people use the word love to mean: “I feel connected to someone, and I hope it lasts.”

But what if love is not about someone at all?

What if love is the felt result of seeing reality clearly?

This matters because if love is only a relationship experience, then love is fragile. It rises and falls with attention, behavior, and timing.

But if love is a recognition of what you are, love becomes steady. You can still enjoy relationships, but you stop using them to find yourself.

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