What does it mean to truly support and be supported? Many of us grow up thinking support comes from outside—maybe from a partner, family, or friends. But what if the real support, the kind that never wavers, is already inside you? Let’s explore the idea of the divine feminine as the ultimate source of support, a power that holds space for creation, love, and strength.
When we think of support, we might picture someone protecting or providing for us. That’s valid, especially when we feel vulnerable. Sometimes, we associate vulnerability with our physical bodies, particularly if we identify with the feminine. Society often tells us the feminine is fragile, needing the masculine to shield it. But here’s the truth: the feminine isn’t weak—it’s the foundation, the space that allows everything to grow and thrive.
Imagine the feminine as a satellite dish, receiving energy, ideas, and creation from the universe. You’re not just a body or a mind—you’re a divine force, indestructible and eternal. When you tap into this truth, you stop seeking support out of fear or insecurity. Instead, you become the support. You become the loving space where life flourishes, where the masculine finds direction, and where God’s creations come to life.
This doesn’t mean you’ll never need help. It’s okay to seek stability, especially when you’re still growing into your divine confidence. At times, we all feel human, vulnerable, and a little unsure. That’s normal! In those moments, finding a trustworthy masculine force—someone who provides protection, guidance, or provision—can be a beautiful step. It’s like practicing surrender, letting yourself be open and vulnerable to build trust.
Surrendering isn’t about giving up your power. It’s about trusting the process and allowing yourself to feel vulnerable until you realize your inner strength. Think of it like planting a seed in fertile soil. The soil (the feminine) supports the seed (the masculine) to grow into something amazing. You are that soil, providing the space for life to bloom.
To grow into this divine feminine power, start by trusting yourself. If you feel drawn to someone who feels safe and reliable, allow yourself to open up at your own pace. It might feel scary, but that’s a sign you’re on the right path. Vulnerability is the doorway to discovering your indestructibility. As you practice this, you’ll feel lighter, freer, and more confident in your role as the support for creation.
The Bible reminds us of this strength in Proverbs 31:25: “She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.” This verse celebrates the feminine as a force of unshakable confidence, ready to support and uplift all that comes her way.
Dive Deeper – Embracing Your Inner Support: A Guide to Self-Sustaining Confidence
Summary points:
- We often look outside ourselves for support, but true and lasting support comes from within.
- The feminine energy, a receptive and nurturing force present in everyone, is the ultimate source of support.
- This inner feminine energy allows the masculine (active) energy to create and manifest.
- Recognizing your inherent strength reduces the need to constantly seek external support, leading you to become the support.
- Allowing yourself to be vulnerable with trustworthy individuals can be a stepping stone to realizing your own indestructible strength.
- Connecting with your inner feminine energy empowers you and can also make you a source of support for others.
Actions:
- Reflect on your reliance on external support: Consider the areas in your life where you consistently seek help from others.
- Explore your inner feminine energy: Spend time in quiet contemplation, focusing on feelings of receptivity, intuition, and nurturing within yourself.
- Practice self-compassion: Be gentle and understanding with yourself, recognizing your inherent strength even during moments of perceived vulnerability.
- Identify safe individuals for vulnerability: Choose someone you trust and allow yourself to be open with them, observing how this can build inner resilience.
- Affirm your inner strength: Regularly tell yourself “I am strong,” “I am capable,” and “I am the support I need.”
- Offer support to others: By extending your inner strength outwards, you further cultivate your own sense of capability and connection.