Embrace Your Inner Explorer: It’s Time to Truly Live
Have you ever felt a deep stirring inside, a quiet (or maybe not-so-quiet) nudge telling you there’s more to life than your current routine? That feeling isn’t random noise; it’s the call of your inner explorer, the part of you designed for adventure, discovery, and growth.
Think about it: we have two legs, built for movement. We inhabit a breathtaking planet, practically begging to be seen and experienced. We are wired not just to travel across lands, but also to venture into new territories of understanding, relationships, and our own awareness, or consciousness. Life, in its very essence, is about exploration.
Breaking Free from the “Tiny Corner”
So often, we find ourselves stuck. We might settle into jobs that don’t light us up or relationships that feel more like comfortable habits than vibrant connections. Society often tells us this is the way – find your corner, settle down, and stay put. The text we’re drawing from even questions the idea that everyone is meant for one single partner for their entire life. While deep, lifelong commitment is beautiful and true for some, it’s not the only valid story.
Many of us are designed to move, to shift, to be dynamic and flexible, whether that’s exploring different careers, different ways of living, or yes, even different relationships over time. Sometimes connections pause while we explore our individual paths, only to reconnect later, stronger and wiser. Sometimes they end, making space for new growth. The key is movement, not stagnation.
Why do we resist this natural flow? Often, it’s because we’ve been taught to fear lack. We cling tightly to the little we’ve built for ourselves – our “tiny little corner,” as the source text calls it – afraid that wanting more, or something different, is risky or wrong. We become attached not out of deep fulfillment, but out of fear of losing the little we have allowed ourselves. When discomfort arises, we might think we need to meditate more or suppress the feeling, when really, the feeling is a signal that we’ve confined ourselves too much.
The Surprising Spirituality of Aliveness
If we gave ourselves permission to truly explore what calls to us, to follow the impulses of our heart and spirit, that feeling of lack wouldn’t have such a hold on us. Think about people you know who seem truly alive. Often, they are the adventurers, the travelers, the ones who pursue their passions, regardless of whether it fits a conventional mold.
The source text offers a powerful comparison: imagine someone who has attended spiritual retreats for 20 years, seeking enlightenment by trying to quiet their desires. Now, imagine a rock climber who has traveled the world, deeply connected to nature and the thrill of pushing their limits, perhaps with no formal “spiritual” knowledge. Who seems more alive? Often, it’s the explorer, the one embracing the dynamic energy of life, the one acting on their natural impulses.
This doesn’t mean spiritual study is pointless! But it highlights that true spiritual alignment isn’t just about reading books or meditating; it’s about living in harmony with the creative force that flows through us – and that force includes desire, passion, and excitement.
It’s Never Too Late to Explore
Maybe reading this brings a pang of regret: “I wish I’d lived more adventurously!” Don’t let that stop you. Consider it a wake-up call, not a judgment. It is never too late. Your age, your physical condition, your current circumstances – none of these are permanent roadblocks.
Amazing transformations can happen when we have a shift in understanding, a change in belief. Letting go of the fear that holds you back, the fear that exploring will lead to loss, can energetically reshape your reality faster than you might imagine. The choice is always yours. You have the free will to stay safe in your known corner, or you can choose to open the door to adventure, trusting the innate intelligence of life that wants you to experience more.
Embracing your inner explorer doesn’t mean you have to quit your job and climb Mount Everest tomorrow (unless you want to!). It means allowing yourself to desire. It means listening to your passions. It means taking small steps, or big leaps, towards what makes you feel truly alive. Acting on what you’re passionate about, day by day, is how you become an epic expression of existence.
So, ask yourself: What is my spirit calling me to explore next?
Diving Deeper with Bentinho
Let’s dive into something super interesting – exploration. You know, the kind of exploring that makes life an adventure. Ben says we’re all about moving and shaking things up. And he’s got a point!
Imagine this: humans have two legs, right? That’s for moving around, exploring every nook and cranny of this beautiful planet, and even venturing into the depths of our own minds and hearts. It’s all about discovering new things – places, ideas, and even relationships.
Now, about relationships… It’s kinda funny to think that everyone is supposed to find just one person and stick with them forever. Sure, it’s absolutely beautiful for some, but not for everyone. People are meant to experience life, with or without a partner. Sometimes that means taking a break, exploring, and maybe coming back together. Life’s about being flexible, dynamic, and open to change.
Ben believes that being stuck in one place, clinging to the same old things, makes us miss out on so much. It’s like we’re in this vast, amazing universe but we’re just hanging out in one tiny corner. Why? Because we’re afraid to want more, to explore more. But when we do let ourselves dream and wander, we break free from that feeling of lack.
Take adventurers, for example. Those folks who travel the world, meet tons of people, and try all sorts of things. They seem to have a spark, a certain aliveness, that’s hard to find in someone who’s been in the same job that’s not their passion for years. It’s not about being happy all the time or having it all figured out. It’s about following that natural urge to explore and see where it leads.
Ben’s point isn’t that everyone should quit their jobs and travel. It’s more about listening to those inner nudges, those desires that we’ve been told to ignore. Whether it’s trying a new hobby, learning something new, or even changing how we think about relationships, it’s all exploration. And this exploration can lead to a deeper, more fulfilling life.
He also talks about how trying to suppress our desires and passions is like turning our backs on the wisdom of the universe. It feels good to acknowledge that, right? To realize that embracing our desires can actually set us free.
So, if you’ve ever felt stuck or like you’re just going through the motions, remember this: it’s never too late to explore. A shift in perspective, a new belief, can change everything. And you don’t have to do it alone. Your higher self, that part of you that’s always cheering you on, respects your choices. But it’s also there, offering endless possibilities, if you’re open to them.
Quotes:
“Exploration is not just about seeing new places; it’s about seeing life through new eyes and embracing the myriad possibilities that unfold.” – Bentinho Massaro
“Not all those who wander are lost.” – J.R.R. Tolkien
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” – Mark Twain
“Embrace the rhythm of creation, and let your desires lead you to a life of boundless adventure.”
— Inspired by Eckhart Tolle
Spiritual Book Reference:
“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” – Matthew 7:7, The Bible. This verse encourages us to seek, explore, and be open to the experiences life has to offer.
“Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.” – Hebrews 11:1
“What you are now is what you have been. What you will be is what you do now.” – Bhagavad Gita
“Life is a journey. Time is a river. The door is ajar.” – Zen Buddhist saying
Summary Points:
- Humans Are Built to Explore: Our physical and spiritual design encourages movement, discovery, and growth, whether through travel, new relationships, or inner exploration.
- Desires Are Divine Clues: Your passions and impulses are not to be suppressed but embraced as guides to your purpose and a more vibrant life.
- Relationships Are Dynamic: Not everyone is meant for one lifelong partner; exploring different connections can lead to growth and even reconnection later.
- Adventure Brings Aliveness: People who follow their passions, like travelers or risk-takers, often radiate more vitality than those stuck in unfulfilling routines.
- Lack Mentality Limits Us: Fear of losing what we have keeps us attached to small lives, but opening to exploration reveals life’s abundance.
- It’s Never Too Late: A shift in mindset can transform your life—health, relationships, or career—in weeks, no matter your age or circumstances.
Actions:
- Try Something New This Week: Sign up for a class, visit a new place, or start a hobby you’ve always been curious about to spark exploration.
- Journal Your Desires: Write down three things you deeply want but have been afraid to pursue, and reflect on why they matter to you.
- Connect with Someone New: Strike up a conversation with a stranger or reconnect with an old friend to open yourself to new perspectives.
- Take a Small Risk: Say “yes” to an opportunity that scares you, like applying for a new job or joining a community group.
- Meditate on Abundance: Spend 5 minutes daily visualizing a life full of adventure and joy, letting go of fears about lack or failure.
- Create a Vision Board: Collect images and words that represent the life you want to explore, and place it somewhere you’ll see daily for inspiration.
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