Finding balance between our inner masculine and feminine energies can seem like a daunting task. Yet, Bentinho Massaro offers a unique perspective on this challenge through the concept of a Surrender Workshop. This approach encourages us to envision God as a masculine force – omnipresent, protective, and supportive. By surrendering to this divine masculine, we align our energies, promoting a more balanced and healthy state of being.

Surrender doesn’t mean giving up our power; rather, it’s about trusting in a higher force that is always looking out for us. This trust allows us to let go of unnatural, societal-imposed masculine qualities, restoring our true feminine essence. It’s not about rejecting masculinity but embracing a holistic version that supports both the feminine and masculine in harmony.

For women, this practice is about tapping into their pure feminine energy, something many desire but struggle to achieve in our society. For men, it’s about embodying a more genuine and holistic masculinity. These polarities, when balanced, support each other, making it easier for both to thrive.

The dance between these energies is not just philosophical; it has practical applications in our relationships and daily experiences. By surrendering to the divine masculine, we open ourselves to attract balanced male forces into our lives. This doesn’t mean surrendering to every male presence but finding those that resonate with our true selves.

Interestingly, the practice of surrendering to God as a masculine force is not about exclusion but about inclusion. It’s a starting point to deepen our surrender, trust our femininity, and activate energies that are healing for us and the planet. As we practice this in the privacy of our internal reality, we begin to attract partners who reflect the balance and harmony we seek.

Massaro also emphasizes discernment. Surrendering to the divine doesn’t mean relinquishing discernment in our human interactions. It’s possible to send love and surrender to the divine aspect in everyone while still choosing whom we allow into our personal space.

In summary, the Surrender Workshop is not just about gender dynamics but about finding balance and harmony within ourselves and our relationships. It teaches us to embrace vulnerability and receptivity, not as weaknesses, but as strengths that connect us to the divine masculine and feminine energies within.


“True surrender to the divine masculine within us leads to the restoration of our true feminine essence, revealing a path of healing for ourselves and the planet.” – Bentinho Massaro

“True surrender is not about giving up, but about letting go of control and allowing the Universe to work its magic.” – Gabrielle Bernstein

Spiritual Reference:

“Be still, and know that I am God.” – Psalm 46:10. This verse encapsulates the essence of surrender, inviting us to trust in the divine and find peace in the stillness of surrender.

“Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time. Cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:6-7

Ultimately, the Surrender isn’t just about gender roles; it’s about discovering wholeness within. It encourages us to embrace vulnerability and receptivity as strengths, fostering a powerful connection to our inner divine masculine and feminine. So, take a deep breath, let go of the need to control, and embark on a journey towards harmony with this unique approach.